My question is, if I go out and have sex with other guys in a NON ABUSIVE, CONSENSUAL and PREMEDITATED manner, then how am I sinning?

I'm not going to take the time to look up all the scriptures that call premarital and same gender sex as sin. I'm sure you know about them. You can make up your own definition of sin if you want. It doesn't affect me, so it doesn't matter to me. But God will not be impressed with "The Book of Aionios" you want to insert into your Bible. Sin has a cost, and I'm not talking about heaven and hell. If you aren't a Christian and haven't turned you life over to God, I think you can pretty much do whatever you want without much interference from God. But if you HAVE turned your life over to God, you have given Him permission to shape you and mold you into what He wants you to be. And I know from experience that He won't let you do your own thing if it's against His will forever. Somewhere in the Bible it says God chastises those he loves. But it's your life. You can do what you want.

Dakota