I believe that no one of us will be perfect as long as we live. Fortunately that's is perfectly ok, and in Lord we can - sometimes, when we are open to it - find what we ourselves lack.

Perhaps there's something similar in how BLs are often afraid of RL boys and in stage fright, so I tried to link to a Wikipedia page, but no can do - well, you can find it yourself. There are ways to develop courage listed there and else where. This might be silly, though, just an idea. You decide!

Also... Boys are not perfect either :)


Dwain