Personally, I have never actively tried to find a YF, but 2 have found me. It's been a long time since I had a YF and sometimes I do yearn for one. But I feel that if a relationship with a YF is to be God centered, then God will have to help it happen. I just try to make myself available. I feel that to try to establish a relationship with a YF without God is just asking for trouble. We would be setting ourselves up to be manipulated by Satan.

Dakota