I think there's probably a lot of truth to that 'boys are sexual' statement. but I don't think it makes it imperative to stop contact with them. My YF was really supercharged in that respect, but I found ways to work around it without messing up the relationship. It got to be VERY hard sometimes, but I couldn't have lived without him otherwise.

Isn't denying oneself temptation supposed to be part of being a Christian anyway?