I never said I thought it was sinful to look at boys, nor is it sinful even to get sexually aroused by them. But yes, I believe focusing on the sexiness of a boy is sinful. As I mentioned before, I also think young girls are cute and I enjoy watching them. But it's not the same for me as looking at boys. When I see a young girl, I may smile or think "aww, isn't she cute." But when I see a cute boy, especially if he's showing some skin, I have to keep myself from staring. So that tells me the image is appealing to me not only in the "aww, isn't he cute" way, but also in a sexual way. So while I don't think having those feelings is a sin, I think looking for pics to cater to those feelings is a sin. I've heard it explained this way. To have an inapropriate thought or feeling is not a sin. But to ask that thought or feeling to come in for tea and cookies is a sin.

Dakota