Well said. People so often to go off in the wrong directions when thinking about this. It's not fundamentally any different than "normals" desiring the opposite sex of "appropriate" age. We humans all have different tendencies, sexual and not. Some sinful and some not. We simply have to avoid indulging thoughts and feelings that will lead us into sin. A lustful thought isn't sin. Toying with and indulging the thought is. Then we need to stop it and ask forgiveness.