Hey Kjun,

Can I just encourage you to be careful what you confess to counselors, pastors or anyone you speak to in a professional capacity about your BL issues.

Where I live, professional people are legally bound to report to the authorities anyone confessing to any activity that is illegal...or potentially harmful to children.

I also, from my own experience, agree that you can find good helpful counsel out there. I've seen more than two in the last 5 years and each one had their own strengths and weaknesses. Some I'd see again and others I wouldn't. For the most part... non-sex-offending boylovers don't just go up and confess their struggles to the "counseling" world so they really don't have much research or even much clue about what makes us tick. One of my counselors had a tone of experience with convicted sex offenders and he kept trying to measure me by their standards and it just never worked.

Amongst the guys here you won't find a bucket load of well researched and soundly tested hypotheses of the dynamics of pedophillia either... because they don't really exist... but you will get plenty of empathy and encouragement and in the field anecdotal experience.

Blessings
Cat.