I was wondering if any of you guys have ever found yourself pondering what is sin and what is not. This seems to be the biggest source of conflict for me. I have come to terms with the fact that I am a BL and I am ok with that, but it seems no matter how hard I try I can’t get away from the internal conflict of what is ok and what is sin. I want to please God and I know that he offers forgiveness but I always wonder am I abusing his grace or just being too hard on myself. I was raised in a very mainstream protestant denomination and I want to make everything black and white but now that I am embracing myself as a BL everything seems grey.

Kjun