So I came upon an interesting question in a discussion with a bl friend recently and I'm wondering what everyone else thinks.

Most of us seem to accept the idea that it is perfectly acceptable for a BL to have healthy non-sexual, non-romantic relationships with children. Most of us are also coming from the point of view of someone who has never acted out sexually with children. But what about for those who have? Should a Christian BL who has acted out sexually with a boy in the past ever trust himself around boys again?