Eldad, I'm not sure if that's a good comparison.

If you talk about disability and temptation you only confirm the bad opinion most people have about us, I think.

We all should be proud of ourselves for being responsible BLs. We don't act out our sexuality and we try to keep other BLs from doing so.

That's why I don't agree with the word "disability", don't blame yourself that way.

And people have to learn that BLs don't only struggle with temptation all the time but also dream of love and friendship!

Or maybe I just misunderstoud your post?

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