Excellent.... (Wayne's World has a lot to answer for!) One way of attacking the issue with your friend is that of going in another direction - if you are opposed to gay sex in general, then you can talk about that as an indication that that isn't where you're at with him. Does that make any sense? Not that I know how you bring it up - and I'm not sure whether he's old enough to discuss this with. This suggestion is based on the friendships I had with a couple of different 15 year olds who made some very negative comments about 'Hating gays' very early in my time with them. It had the effect of 'clearing the air' - I knew for the rest of my friendship with them that it wasn't going to drift off into an unhelpful direction. Hope that makes sense. |