splash, i just got done reading your long post. i had those same stereotypes about boylovers when i first found out my fiancee was a boylover. this site has helped me to understand him and other boylovers better. i hope you get alot of support from this site. it has helped me alot (and my fiancee Chior Boy). I do beleive that you controlling your sexual feelings is a sign of you doing what is best for your pseudo-stepson. overall you affected his life for the better because of your control, and that is what counts!!!!! God bless, stranger |