Funny how, when Heather writes to us directly on our little chat boards, like above, we are "boy-lovers" but when she writes to "lay-people" the best term she can come up with is "sex offender." She says: I'd love to get rid of all such labels. How to do so and to continue to communicate to laypersons is the part I haven't figured out. Maybe you could just explain how the terms are loaded with wrong assumptions and distortions and no self-respecting journalist should be using them. That's HOW we get rid of such labels! |