Can we make a division

. . . between what happens to you and what happens to other people? I agree that it's wrong for people to project their own destructive experiences with sex onto you. But it seems to me that you're doing exactly the same thing to me – you're projecting your nondestructive sexual experiences onto my life, and saying that, if I haven't had the same experiences as you have, then I must be "sick." Needless to say, that's not a technique I care for, whether it's practiced by Christians or nonChristians. Heather [E-mail]   [Home Page]