Welcome aboard - I'm always encouraged to hear of people who have lived with being a BL that much longer than me and made something of it; we need to hear that it IS possible, as the lie of the world is that it can't be done, and you NEED sexual relationships. So I hope we will hear more from you. Are you 'out' to any IRL? I've been blessed by some positive reactions, but am currently struggling with whether to be a bit more open with a couple of people who were for periods in the past my YFs, though the relationships have moved beyond that now as they got a lot older. Also, do you have any ongong friendships with men who were at one time the most important person in your life when they were younger; how close are you to them now? Looking forward to hearing more.... |