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Submitted by Bach on March 10 2001 11:11:05
In reply to Masturbation, lust, innability to control desires. submitted by Disturbed on March 10 2001 02:30:19


Hi Disturbed,

I'm glad you found us! I don't know of any Girl Love resources for Christians in English. There is one resource in German, called Baumstark.

You are certainly welcome to post here, and I am sure there are people here who have had similar questions themselves regarding their sexuality. I don't think that masturbation is sinful either, although if it becomes an obsession and interferes with our lives, I think it could become sinful.

Why are you worried about "acting out"? Do you have a history of not controlling yourself? Do you find your sexual desires overpowering?

I very much doubt that you will ever be as excited by adult pics as child pics... our attractions don't tend to disappear. I know of some people who have managed to widen their attractions to enable them to have relationships with legal partners, but to "get rid" of an attraction tends not to be successful in my experience. It isn't totally impossible, but rare.

I'd be very careful about getting married if you have no attraction to adult females... you may be setting yourself up for failure!

Peace of Christ,
Bach


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