Hello
Submitted by Dream Weaver on July 14 2001 05:08:26
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Hi Everyone, I found out about this board from Bach (Thank you BTW). Unlike most of the posters here I'm not a BLer. I'm a girl-lover, specifically a hebephile with a preference towards 12-15 year olds. As such, I'm a regular poster at GirlChat. Bach pointed me to this site in reponse to post where I expressed a desire to "come out" to one of the priest at my church. A link to my post is located at the bottom of this post( If the link doesn't work, copy and past http://www.annabelleigh.net/messages/129988.htm ). Of course, the problem is that I'm involved with the youth ministry and I'm extremely attracted to one of the teens. Also, my church is very conversative despite the rock band they have at some of the Masses. Also, I probably can argue the fact that Mary was 12-14 when she married Joseph until I'm blue in the face. So I'm not ready to let my predilection become known at this time. Until that time I hope you'll let me join this community and share my journey with you. According to Bach and what I've read here, many of you have admitted your predilection to leaders and some members of your church and have even formed support groups. Can I ask you about your experiences such as how did you decide, were you afraid to be possible banned from the church (Yes, I know it's supposed to be open, but given the hysteria you never know), how did you decide who to tell and their reaction(s)? Also, if you're in a support groups, how did you go about forming it? One would think putting out an announcement about it would recieve a huge negative reaction if not threats on continual basis. What opposition did you encounter from church officals and how did you overcome it and gain their involvement? I'm sorry if I'm full of questions or asking you to repeat your stories for the umpteenth time. Sincerely, Dream Weaver |
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