Why do I have to have known and liked someone when they were a youth to be able to like them in their manhood? Doesn't sound consistent to me. I find that happening, too - now that you mention it. For me, there is no sexual interest in adult males, including my older yfs, but the emotional attraction remains into adulthood. I guess it is because I have "seen 'em naked" in the emotional sense. I know that there is a real, vulnerable, caring person in that adult body. And there is all the history that we have shared. Interesting question! Nate |