I agree that this is a great post. I'm glad to see some responses to a question I've had for a long time, but always wondered if people would think I was crazy if I asked it. Are we sexually attracted to boys because of our deep love and caring, or do we care so much because we are sexually attracted to them? The older I get, the more I think the love and caring came first. That statement sounds so self serving, and I'm sure the world at large would think that I am just justifying my perverted feelings. After all, to them I am the *bogeyman* that they warn their children about. But they don't know what's in my heart, and frankly, I don't think they care. It's a strange world. If a father who never found time for his son except to beat him ever found out one of his son's friends or mentors was a BL, he very well might assault the BL. And most people would probably praise this guy for *protecting* his son. Yes, a very strange world indeed. Anyway, I'm glad the question is being discussed here. I look forward to reading more replies. Dakota |