It's hard not to hate someone who is making your life miserable. I'm sure you already know that hate only hurts the person that is doing the hating, so I won't go into that. Unfortunately, knowing that doesn't seem to help a person refrain from hating. The only thing I know to do is to pray, and pray hard. God is the only one that can help take away the hate. But it may not come all at once. In the meantime, I would exercise your rights as given you by the courts. It's not going to be easy with your wife spreading fear, but don't be bullied into backing off. I don't know who told you that you weren't welcome at your son's practice, but unless it is your son telling you that, tell them to buzz off. Dakota |