That's a really hard question
Submitted by Forgiven on January 1 2002 15:22:43
In reply to Re: Making the boundaries clear submitted by JackWade on January 1 2002 01:09:41
|
and I suspect there isn't a general answer. Beyond the obvious no go areas (from his waist down to the top of his legs), a lot of it has to do with what your intentions are and what your YF is comfortable with - how he is interpreting in his mind what you are doing. But I suspect that can also be a dangerous question - for me the pleasure of contact with boys is independent any overtly 'sexual' component to the touch. You're on dangerous waters when your motivations with a boy are seriously mixed, especially when there is a sexual fantasy element in your thinking about him; if you've crossed the line in your thought life, then if he makes you a serious offer, you're likely to find it VERY hard to say no. |
Follow ups: