I think it would be sin to look on anyone with lust, including boys. I doubt being unmarried would excuse us from this sin. But the big question is what, exactly, is lust? This has been debated for amny years. Personally, I don't believe the feelings we, as boylovers, get when we see a boy is sin. I don't classify that as lust, just as I don't think the attraction any heterosexual man feels when he sees a good looking woman is lust, either. However, if we dwell on the sexual thoughts and perhaps fantasize about the object of our attraction, then it becomes lust and sin. I'm afraid this is still an area I have problems with. But I don't beat myself up over those random sexual thoughts everyone gets. We have no control over those. I try to work on the dwelling and fantasizing part. Dakota |