Hear hear about the support of this board (and my church triplet). It would be much more difficult to go and do something wrong with a boy knowing I had to face you guys and the two guys in my triplet. I agree too that it is far to easy to justify our actions by one means or another. Way back in the past I used to think how lovely and beautiful were my friendships with boys. Looking back, I realise how selfish and manipulative I was. The friendships were for my benefit not theirs. I hope that they got something out of it too, but I cannot profess that that was my prime concern. Bill |