Why DID yuo have sex with that young man? Is that what you realy wanted or were you just lonesome for a touch? Understand I am not asking this as being judgemental as I have failed the test too, many times. But I'm guessing that as boy lovers this is where we get into trouble as we start out wanting companionship, but then our sexual nature takes over and we carry it a bit further. Then we feel guilty because we know we have done wrong. Remember the words of Paul, "the things that I would not, that I do" Myself, I have a hard time separating deep love for a boy from consentual sexual contact. |