WOW! Do you really feel that way? That is sad. Why should you concern yourself with what others think or may say? Because I'm a "boylover" in a very visible position in my community, and I definitely don't need the suspicion from others that I might be a pedophile. Not that I have ever done or plan to do anything criminal, but we know how society views us. I catch my eyes wandering several times a day, and maybe my face brightens up more than it should when a boy walks into the room... and maybe I give a little more attention to children than most people do -- I don't need people to start taking notes and coming to conclusions -- so yeah, I'm very conscious of anything I do that might make others suspicious. It is sad, but for a boylover it's life. Splash |