That is your first priority when you are going to have kids. And when you have kids, you should plan to raise them in the best possible environment. They will base their entire view on romantic relationships on how they see their parents. They need a mom and a dad who are completely in love with each other. This sets the proper example for your children. If they view mom and dad as two adults who are just together for the convenience, they will look at that as the proper relationship they should look for as an adult. In Christ, RF |