Re: Yet more advice needed...
Submitted by Bach on February 08 1999 at 21:24:22
In reply to Yet more advice needed... Submitted by Scott on February 08 1999 at 18:21:13
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Having had in mind the possibility of outing myself in public, I figured I may as well drop the nick and use a real name. Scott, you will want to reflect very carefully on this idea, especially given your thoughts of marriage. There are many dangers and the folks on the front lines of the BL movement can explain better than I why it is important to keep your privacy. Once something becomes public knowledge you can never take it back. It's out there. Ask Pastor Tim about that photo that he didn't like being distributed. You can no longer control what becomes public knowledge. Perceptions and misjudgements are formed. It would effect every other decision you make for the rest of your life. There is no turning back. Coming out to trusted friends is one thing, but doing stuff in a public way is a totally different ball game. Be forewarned. Peace of Christ, Bach 
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