An Approach to Pure Boylove
Submitted by Thumb on April 29 1999 at 02:01:33
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Hi. Each and every one of you may have a different reaction to what I am about to declare, some of you may see it as criticism, and others may view it an interesting addition to the discussion. Hopefully, it may even open an eye or two. Here's what I have to say: Ever since I decided that I belonged to the boylove society, there has always been a certain aspect to it that has made me uneasy, and even uncomfortable. What it is, none of whom I have ever mentioned it to, be it on b2h or elsewhere, have been willing to accept this and usually dismissed it immediately. Why? Well, it is a sensitive issue - especially for people that title themselves "boylovers", and yet resemble pedophiles in most ways. What you must realize, is that there is a difference. If there weren't, why would anyone even have bothered to come up with the concept of "boylove"? I'll tell you why: Some pedophiles do have a big problem with what they really are, they fear the law in some cases, and are looking for an excuse and a justification for acting upon their sexual attraction to kids, while others are simply disgusted with what they are feeling, and are desperately looking for a way to disassociate themselves with the pedophilic society. This simply isn't right, and doesn't work. And this can seriously confuse people. So, let's face the facts. If you have a sexual attraction to either young boys or young girls, or even both, in any shape or form, you are indeed a pedophile. "Semi-pedophilic" or "somewhat pedophilic but not quite" doesn't exist. You may not like it, as pedophiles do have a very bad reputation, as a result of the many sex offenders that share your affection for kids, but that's exactly what you are: a pedophile. You may be a "good" pedophile, that is you are sexually attracted to little boys but you don't do anything about it and you would never even dream of hurting a boy, and if so being a pedophile does NOT make you any worse of a person. But, on the other hand, you may be a "bad", or should I say "naughty" pedophile, and you would do what it takes to be able to have sex with a little boy - even if it resulted in rape. If so, you are a VERY bad person, and you belong behind bars for life! I do not share this sexual infatuation with kids with you, what I feel is very different. I do have an extreme love and affection for boys, but on a whole different level. Let me explain: I am the sort of person who loves and respects children, and do seek their presence and enjoy their company, and the deep and loving friends that can be found in them. Incidentally, I am also the sort of person whose presence is sought by children - I am not sure what it is about me, but I am a so-called "children magnet", and kids seem to see something in me that they deem worth pursuing. My close relationship with my little friends, is hard to explain so that it can fully be understood. After careful consideration, I always come to the same conclusion, however: It is probably very much like a true paternal (or even maternal) love, but yet supposedly more profound, and it is met with love or admiration of equal extent. -- I think this to be the purest form of true boylove. And it strikes me as hazardous that this should be associated with pedophilia by so many. And the fact that so many of you, that do title yourselves as "boylovers", are clearly pedophiles, and seem to think that if you do not desire to hurt or to force yourself upon a boy, but yet seek a sexual relationship with one (as long as the boy is voluntarily willing), you are not pedophiles anymore but boylovers, is frightening. You are still pedophiles, and you have nothing to do with boylove. We are two separate groups - and there is an enormous difference! And "boyloving pedophiles" such as you, contribute to the confusion of others - and without change, the two terms will become one and the same, and thus nobody will know the difference. I am not saying that all of you are not boylovers but pedophiles - but in my experience, in communicating with "fellow boylovers", a very large percentage of you are. Please realize this. I'm almost certain in my belief, that true boylovers are outnumbered by pedophiles in the world - but nevertheless, we are a society of equal strength and presence in the world. So many of us get confused in the search of where we belong, and we begin to question whether we aren't indeed alone in the world, 'cause we certainly do not belong among pedophiles. I know this for a fact, for I sought to belong for a very long time, before I got acquainted with the boylove concept. Associating with pedophiles, helped me a lot along the way to an answer - and if only the world knew, that there is a lot of pedophiles out there who are not dangerous to children, but unfortunately you fade in the shadow of your evil peers. Please acknowledge the difference, and help prevent future confusion in the matter. I know what I have stated here to be true, I have researched this for many years. Thank you for your patience, and I hope that you have found what I have written here to be interesting - and please pass this on to whomever you think might be interested, or could even benefit from this letter. I care about you all, and if you are a member of the b2h family, I just want you to know that I miss you very much. Take Care! Lots of love! Warm regards, Thumb (Guy_Friar) |