At 09:16 AM 3/23/96, Ray wrote: >and still coming to terms with being in >love with a ..., which every subtle message from >society says either couldn't be, or couldn't be >good -- even in Pflag. And you responded: Yes, there are issues of power in adult-child relationships. PFLAG has taken a position against NAMBLA. I think that, in general, people have not taken the time to understand both sides of this issue. There is a knee-jerk response. I think that you should be closetted concerning this in the ... PFLAG Chapter, only coming out to people who have already formed a good opinion of you. I feel honored that you are confiding in me. I do not know enough about man-boy relationships to have formed an opinion. People I respect have taught me to be open-minded on this, but it's not a topic that I've taken an interest in. Now that I know you, I except I might learn more. That from when I was first learning to use e-mail, and about a year before Bridges-Across. Hope you don't mind my making public a private conversation! Ray |