Hi Heather, yes you're quite right on that account, it was wrong what I did with those boys in my teens (at camp), and goes against everything I now believe and feel in my heart. I pray they were indeed sleeping, and not really knowing, I still live with this. I believe J and I had a wonderful relationship because of prayer, and total honesty. I don't think force, or coersion in any degree belongs to boylove. regretfully sometimes it's hard to see some of the more subtle coersion though, specially in light of Romantic love being Truely "blind" at times. That's when bl's should pray. thanks for your comments. |