Hi Heather, If I'm not mistaken, the last time I participated here was a few months ago when I had some conversation with a gay man and his BL lover. The gay man was trying to help his lover find some support. I remember having very positive, very supportive communication with both of them. As for Ben, he happens to be a friend of mine and he has been for years. I can't help but feel horrified at the evil he's buying into and I'm expressing that horror. Perhaps a glass of cold water in his face might be effective - I don't know. But to see him spewing fundamentalist hate doctrine is a little more than I can stomach. If he weren't my friend, I wouldn't have cared and wouldn't have posted. My language an honest expression of my feelings completely from the heart. Jim |