Hi there, Seems to me your questions are loaded. You ask: "is it OK to look at cute boy and fantasize about them etc.? and then go to church and call oneself a christian?" Dunno. "Is it OK to look at a cute boy and fantasize?" Why wouldn't it be? Your question seems to imply doubt. What is wrong with fantasy? "and then go to church and call oneself a christian?" Is there something special about going to church that makes it OK to call oneself a Christian? And does sexual fantasy preclude calling it OK? I have to admit to being pretty perplexed by your question. I think there must be a lot more involved than what you're actually saying. What are you actually asking? Jim |