Hi Heather, I'm so glad you wrote all of that. I couldn't agree more. If you read what I wrote In reply to Nash's post, then I think you will see I have probably followed your advise big time. I did have a talk with her (and I am also planning on a talk with "A" as well) and we now have a better understanding and perspective on this whole thing. I still want to have a talk with both kids about sex in general (something thier dad won't do) but, althogh talking with "A" won't be too difficult (he is a 10 yr. old boy...not too difficult for me to relate to), talking with "F" could be a little sticky. I'm not sure about how to go about it, actually. What would you suggest, Heather? I value your advise as a friend AND a woman. Is there anything out there I could read that would help? Thank you again, Heather, I really appreciate your help big time! Your brother in Christ, Chris |