Re: Hello.
Submitted by Chris on September 09 1999 at 19:43:09
In reply to Hello. Submitted by EnzoMatrix on September 08 1999 at 00:16:47
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Hi EM, I tend to believe the same as you do, I think. I cannot control the thoughts that go through my head every time I see a beautiful boy. Although I have noticed that although my immediate thoughts are ussually of a sexual nature, they tend to give 'way to thoughts and feelings of respect, love, and general admiration. I don't deny that I have sexual feelings for boys but I don't let them overshadow my other feelings either. And when I get too horny, my hand works just fine. You know, I think boylovers get way too worried and feel way too guilty about thier sexuality. We can control our actions and we can express our love for boys in non-sexual ways that are truly benificial to both the boy and the boylover. We can also "use" our natural (and I love to use the word "natural" in this context, probably because I like being a little radical now and then) attraction to boys, and thier attraction to us, in some very constructive ways. Like leading them to Christ! Or just being a good friend and mentor, something so many kids seem to lack nowadays. Anyway, those are my thoughts on this topic. Welcome to CBF, by the way EnzoMatrix. I hope you will stay and join our fellowship here. God bless!! Your's in Christ's love, Chris |