I just want to make sure I understand what you're saying, so I'll make the substitution you suggest: Thinking about kissing my yf, no (not a sin). Thinking about [censored] with my yf, no. Thinking about romanticly kissing another person's yf, yes. Thinking about [censored] with anyone but my yf, yes. So it sounds like since I have no yf, thinking about kissing or [censored] with a boy is sin, but it would be okay if he became my yf. Mark |