"How do the hetero's solve it?" 1) Adultery. 2) Serial monogamy (i.e. getting married over and over). That's not really what you wanted to hear, was it? Okay, let me be heretical and point out that there is an active Christian polygamy movement. And it's firmly Bible-based. :) To be a little more realistic, I'd point out that there is nothing in Christianity that says you can't fall in love with several people at the same time; the rule is simply that you can't enter into marriage with more than one person at a time. Dante was married when he was in love with Beatrice. Heather |