FOD, can you fall in love with a man who you did not know as a boy? Since beginning to accept my orientation, I allowed myself to secretly (maybe? sort of?) "fall in love" with a boy starting two years ago. He is now almost 16, and I still feel deeply about him, including the "desire" part. But he has lost quite a bit of his physical attractiveness, so I think I might not be attracted to him if I had not known him when he was younger. I am thinking that the "desire" part will eventually fade, but now you make me wonder. Mark |