Varying ages of attraction
Submitted by Forgiven on April 22 2000 04:54:58
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My previous posts have indicated that my 'Age of Attraction' has drifted up in recent years to that desirable objective of being 18+ and therefore 'legal' in most jurisdictions and 'acceptable' to most outsiders. What I haven't shared is the degree of variation - which to me suggests something about what is going on. My system was that we went to High School at 13. My experience there was very negative - I ended up forming a few very close friends with an increasingly younger element; in effect I got stuck with the same age (14 or so) rather than moving up - those were the boys that made my life worth living. Between school and university I had a year out - and ended up in a situation where I was surrounded with my peers, whom I didn't get on with especially, or a nine year old - who I grew to 'love' intensely. Sadly I lost touch...... At University I had no contact with 'kids' and after a bad first year, fell for a few of the younger students. (18/19) After university things drifted to a younger age - as opportunity developed - hitting a minimum of 12 - but since then due to the (unsexualised) relationships that I have made, has drifted up again to the point where I completely fail to understand the attraction of a 12 year old sexually (!) and although I can still relate really well to 15 and 16 year olds, it is not 'sexually driven'. I think the moral of this story is that we can look to improve things - but as boy lovers need to be aware of the consequences of our choice; if we focus our affections on a boy at a given age, we are on dangerous territory and may get stuck. I hope the above is encouraging and helpful. It seems to have 'worked' for me..... Others' stories would be interesting! |
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