Knowing *how* to say no
Submitted by Ford Prefect on June 04 2000 15:06:47
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Many here have vowed in one way or another not to have sex with boys. Yet, as the story of Rex tells, as the story cited below on BC tells, as the stories of Tygyr and Adam TBK tell, how we handle the situation of a boy who does want sex can be crucial. It's clear to me from these stories that a quick rebuff can make it very difficult for the boy and leave him wondering what he did to deserve it......maybe for years. What are your ideas on this? I believe it wise to think about this before it happens (even though we probably think it never would) so we wouldn't be as likely to give in to some knee-jerk reaction that hadn't been thought out at all. ---Ford |
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