Hi Cat,

My view is, sure, go ahead and post for those on other sites, if you know how they would respond, and if they're out-in-the-open about their history (in this regard). But, post for everyone you know -- not just one group -- to avoid skewing the results :-)

Same goes for everyone else. If you know others personally, or from other boards, and can (anonymously) post their status, go for it.

As to the age question: I tend to agree with Dakota's 2 cents.

Blessings,
Rainboy