The post made me giggle a little bit.
Though, I'm afraid I don't have a really clear interpretation of the question I want to answer. All I know is, I've been attracted to many boys and am currently attracted to my best friend, I mean, I want him. But he's not boyish at all. He is a harry tone lean sexy man. My age of course. But then again, we did engage in sexual acts from age 11-18.

So it makes me wonder, if I'm slightly a BL because I yearn for the good old days of being with him sexually (in which I was also a child), or if I'm gay because of all that time I spent with him and I want more.