Fantasy is a part of masturbation, at least it always has been with me.

For what it's worth, I don't fantasize. Never have, probably never will. I'm just not wired that way.

For me the absolute best times I have had masturbating are when I am feeling the closest with God. It becomes a time of enjoying my sexuality in a completely open and vulnerable way with the One I love most. In that sense, it is a very fulfilling experience.

I don't know if that helps anyone, but there it is.

Blessings,
Rainboy