i have been reading but not posting but want to address this subject as I find it and the others so very true.

What I feel is the problem is "Wrong Desires" and how one must learn how to deal with them whatever they may be.

In the biblical account of Noah and what happen between him and his grand son, seems to be of interest as I find that it had to do with what Noah found Canaan had done to him. {Gen.9:20-27]

Sad to say, it seems that we are judge not only by what we do, but how we both think and feel. Thus, the way and life of a Christian is not a easy
one but that of the flesh and spirit; the Law and how we view it.

The need for power or self-control in matters of sexual desires are found in our maleness from boyhood to old age; and as we grow, how fine it is to have some one help us in the right way to do the right thing.