1. Adults who want to sex kids do it because it makes them feel powerful.

My sexual fantasies are similar to yours in this respect, they do not involve dominating or hurting the partner in my head. I prefer the idea of equality of pleasure.

BUT This is not true of everyone. Most theories I have heard is that this is what rape is about, power, not sex. since ALL sex with minors is assumed to be rape it is also assumed that this is why sex happens with minors. In fact since a majority of sex with minors does not happen with MAAs but with situational offenders that just might be true.

In my experience the connection of sex and dominance is in the minority but I might be wrong, I have done no research into it. Few people I know have told me they have such fantasies but I assume that most people who do have such fantasies do not go around telling other people. I do know that there is a whole community of people who are into BDSM sex, so people who are into dominating and people who are into being dominated can have sex together.

2. I agree with you 100%. This slippery slope argument used to be used for adult porn and now it is mostly used for cp.

3. also 100% agree with you there.