When I had to go through Sex Offender Treatment, somehow the people there found out that I had had a YF. They asked me plenty of questions about our friendship and what we did together. Everything I told them...all the wonderful things we did together...they said it was all how I was grooming him for sex. I told them we never did anything sexual and they didn't believe me. Even after they sent the police to find him and question him and he told them that we never did anything sexual, they still didn't believe it. It's like they have this mind set that all pedophiles are deviant sexual preditors and nothing we do or say is going to change their minds.