I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I know that nothing I say can truly ease the pain, but I want you to know that Pat & I will keep you in our thoughts. I thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your life with a stranger, and I hope that I did not bring up too many memories. Hurting others was not my intent. :-( I really appreciate all the support that I've received in response to my post. It's been so good to know that we are not alone. Almost like coming out a second time, I guess. I hope that I'll be able to get Pat to post here one day, but whether he decides to or not, I'll keep checking in when I can. You all have created a wonderful community here, and it's something to be proud of. God bless, Pat |