choosing a mate
Submitted by F.O.D. on April 15 1999 at 09:20:54
In reply to Almost missed it! Submitted by Ben on April 15 1999 at 07:57:14
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Hi Ben, maybe I've already mentioned it, I take Jon & David to be a prime example for my boylove relationships too. With each YF, I think wouldn't it be great to seal a deliberate, specific and binding convenant with him, like they did, reinforcing how much we mean to each other. I haven't yet done that with any of 'em though :) Ben, I have a curious question for you, probably one of those without an answer. You've mentioned how you're getting closer + closer to one of the twins, Michael. How does the other twin fit into your times together? What is it that draws you especially close to Michael over his brother? In my case, I'm more emotionally close to E. But his brother Y is also very dear to me and I wonder how I can manage to love the both of them more or less equally, while giving more emotional attention to E. How is it that I can choose the one to love especially closely? I suppose it's the same as asking why you fall in love at all. And it's a general dilemma. One of the times I had a girlfriend, I realised at the same time there was another girl I thought fondly of as well. How could I choose one over the other? The only real conclusion I could come to then was that this question was proof that I shouldn't marry either of them! F.O.D. |