Hi DJ Spike, I really like your website so far. I only did a quick once-over, but I like it. Cute boy on the "home page" too! Anyway, I would like to, first of all, welcome you to CBF. It sounds like you are definately in the right place. This is how I can be a boylover and a Christian at the same time. I know, like yourself, that I cannot do anything about my sexual attraction to boys, in other words, I cannot change it. Nor is there anyone else out there who can...not that I know of, or would dare trust. So, therefor, the only conclusion I can make about possably changing my sexual orientation is that it would have to be by a mirracle, by God Himself, if He so chose. AND He has not chose to do so yet. Maybe one day He will, maybe He won't, I don't know. But at any rate, I put that in His hands. Now I CAN do something about my actions, however. That is why I choose to be celebate. I choose not to have sex with boys, because I feel it is God's will for me to do this. I do not find masterbation objectionable, as it does help me to stay celebate, which I feel is more important. I also come here to talk to, and have a wonderful fellowship with, other Christian boylovers like myself. And that has been a lifesaver for me. You are MORE than welcome here, brother, and I hope you find as much good here as I have. God Bless. Your's in Christ's Love, Chris |