Rex, I never thought of boys as compost, but if it's your thing.... I'm kidding really, but Reading splash's post got me to think of one very potential comminality-lack of an adult male role model. I think that if there was to be a "boylover background survey" that there first needs to be an identification of various threads, like the lack of adult role model as a child, what other threads should there be? Oh, and another thing, Slash mentioned about being attracted to boys abouthis age when he was 12-14. That may not be a BL thing, that's often the time when people have some homoerotic thoughts. The research I have seen says it is most common. Just some thoughts. But what else do we have? peace to you asb |