Categorising Yourself
Submitted by Altima on January 04 2001 10:51:34
In reply to Re: Defining Oneself submitted by Eagle on January 04 2001 00:33:52
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If you want to place yourself in a category, just for your own sake, not to satisfy other people, jus choose the group you feel more comfortable with, the group you, dare I say, like better (not saying choose favorites or anything.) But placing yourself in a clearly defined category doesn't bring you much closer to knowing yourself. Labels are for people who don't think too much about the individual they're labelling. Not everyone fits inside a clear-cut category, one of the reasons it seems people have a hard time understanding BLs and justifying them, they aren't criminals for the most part, they aren't pedophiles by the current definition of the word, they aren't exactly gay either. I would remind myself that if everyone is a different individual, what good are labels? Labels should only be put on products that are machine manufactured o be identical to all others in the group. When you label yourself you're making yourself self concious trying to fit in with the group you've decided you're a part of. I haven't been in your situation, I've never even met anyone who has sais he's gay in person. What I would try to do though, is stay with the men, and when you're around the men, be gay. When you're not, be what you want to be. Sorry if I'm not too much help though, good luck! |
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